Monday, 22 May 2017

“A man is what his mother makes him” Do you agree?


This mothers’ day, there have been a lot talks about mothers and motherhood. Meanwhile a start plus promo clip caught the attention and we noticed how a mother made his son learn how to care and respect women. (Watch the video at the end) 

If you have not watched it, let me tell you in this video a cute boy of 5 or 6 is sitting on the first seat in a bus while there comes a little girl with her mother. The mother of the boy vacates her seat to accommodate them and the little boy follows her mother by letting his seat to the famine duo. The clip tells us what and how much boys learn from their mothers when it comes to their way of treating another female in their lives. 

There was another picture message I noted a few years back in which a boy asks his mother how he can find the best women for himself. At this his mother replies, “instead of focusing on selection of best women, focus on being the best man.”

We know that family is the first school of a child. For a boy his mother is the first women he gets to know and understand. It is the mother who instill the qualities, like caring and respecting a women, in a boy. As a child a boy notes how a women puts deep efforts in taking care of others in the family, how much she works at home and outside home, how much she loves and how much she sacrifices for the sake of her family. Hence, the entire place of a women in a family is well understood by a boy as long as he grows up into a lad. This really has a deep impact on a boy’s attitude and perception towards a women. 

It is the mother who can make her boy understand the most sensitive questions of his life such as, what women like and how to become the dream man of a women. A mother instill emotions in a boy who are otherwise meant to be strong and least emotional. Most boys don’t express their emotions as openly as women do since they bear the responsibility of being stronger gender in the world. However, men can easily express emotions before their mother; they can cry, they can complain, they can express their fear and can also express their love before their mother without being shy about this. 

Thus, for a sustainable society that is free from disguise against women, we really need responsible mothers of boys as they have a key role in not only making them a successful man but also in making them a responsible loving a and caring partner.



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